Every silver lining has a dark cloud

[kitsap_charles]

angilong wants a divorce so she and Jamie can register as domestic partners when they have their handfasting in June.

That is all.

Comments

[kalmn.livejournal.com]

oh, honey. i'm sorry to hear that. [hug]

[riverheart.livejournal.com]

Oh, Charles.

[jenk]

Oh, dear.

Have the two of you agreed that it's a paperwork divorce, or are you looking for a new home? I hope you can still see the kids, esp Stormy...

*hugs*

um

[jenk]

I think I may have typed too soon...I don't know if you've agreed to a divorce or not. What I hope is that you will be able to work things out so that you're okay, and preferably happier. School & River are things that will I hope will help...but it's up to you, really, to decide what you need.

*hugs*

Re: um

[kitsap_charles]

It won't be just paperwork; angilong wants Jamie to move in, and me to move out. I'm going to have to look for any job that won't interfere with school, yet bring in enough money to live on.

And I'm deathly afraid that I'm going to mess up with riverheart— that between the depths of passion and desire I feel for her (and she for me), the continuing heartbreak of this divorce, the pressing needs of jobhunting, and the need to stay in school so I can actually get a decent job in this crappy economy, I'm going to push prematurely toward something that should be allowed to come to fruition in its own time.

But the hugs are always welcome.

Re: um

[technoshaman.livejournal.com]

Don't worry, my friend. You're not going to screw up. One, you're concerned about it; two, you've got Jen and I to help.

Looking forward to seeing you tomorrow night.

[firecat]

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[kitsap_charles]

My words exactly.

[lcohen]

*hugs if welcome*

to be filed in the "when you're ready to hear it" drawer: it may be much easier to get to a better place emotionally if you're not surrounded by reminders of what was but is no longer. i speak from personal experience with that little nugget.

always, always my wishes for happier days.

[kitsap_charles]

I need my own space, definitely. Being able to afford it is another matter entirely. Please intercede with the Powers That Be for a job that pays enough to let me support myself, yet doesn't interfere with my schooling.

And thank you for your good wishes; they are always welcome and much appreciated.

[caraeileen.livejournal.com]

((((((((((Charles)))))))))

:(

[aladriana.livejournal.com]

((((((((hugs)))))))))

I'm sorry Charles. I know you were afraid it was coming, but it always hurts, I think. If we can help at all, let us know.

[submarine-bells.livejournal.com]

Breakups suck wet toads through a catheter; breakups of long-term/primary partnerships suck toads seven-at-a-time.

I hope that the world becomes a happier place for you soon. *many hugs*

[sashajwolf.livejournal.com]

Eek. I'm sorry it didn't work out better for you.

[elfric.livejournal.com]

*sigh*. Not a pleasant thing to have to go through, and I'm sorry to hear about it. =(

[luvlyrita.livejournal.com]

i'm sorry
{{{hugs}}}

[ex-serenejo.livejournal.com]

Oh, Charles, I'm so sorry. I'm over here wishing for a satisfying and doable job, a satisfying and livable home, and a satisfying and happy transition for you. e-hugs and virtual soup are yours if you want them. *sigh*

[gloriajn.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry. I wish I knew what else to say. I'm just stunned.

[fimbrethil.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry that this is painful. I'm sorry you have to endure this loss. HUGS